At some point every decision with this machine comes down to you. Not the examiner. Not the person who cut you off. Not the school that said you were ready. You. That sounds harsh until you feel what it gives you. If it is all yours and you can change it.
Blame is the trap. “He should have stopped” does not move your hands. “The test was unfair” does not rebuild the left turn. We use the same honesty good therapy uses, only the session is moving. You name the piece. We take it apart. We build it again. 100 percent responsibility is not a lecture. It is how freedom shows up.
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