MY GREAT STRUGGLE
Up to 30 years-young, I thought something was seriously wrong with me. Ten people in a room would speak their truths, nine would be similar or identical, and one would be very different, mine. I thought something was wrong with me being so very different. Being different in my childhood was labeled as wrong and bad. I believed this ignorant word for decades.
But at thirty years old, I had a revelation. I was different because I saw things differently than most. I has also learned to question the norm and question social pressures and conform.
With this new realization I quickly became an acting CIO and a CEO without being trained. Neither of which I was educated to perform, but I did it based solely on my determination to learn and produce change and improvements. My think differently than most was a huge advantage.
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ANXIETY FEARS and EXTREME CONCERNS ABOUT DRIVING
Most clients who come to me describe their situations using words from those around them.
Get over it.
Just do it.
Nothing to worry about.
It’s easy.
Maybe all along your life to date, YOUR CONCERNS OF DRIVING have been honest and accurate. Perhaps you were the only one in the room who could see the reality of driving, the real risks of driving. Additionally many clients receive massive inputs from the environment far beyond what most drivers process; car sounds, road noise, bumps, tire crunches, headlights three blocks behind us, kids or pedestrians in front and side moving sideways towards our path.
Your brain may have been processing the real danger when most ignored it. A faster deeper data collection. Maybe.
Your brain may have been processing the real dangers when most ignored.
I have always been concerned about the true risk when driving. As a teen my friends partying in cars would make sure I was dragged along because I was the one that kept the gang away from trouble in cars! Early On, after losing several friends to cars, I realized that our greatest danger growing up was the car!
Come embrace your own vision of what driving is, what is should be, and how you can bring your on voice to the workld of dirivng your way. A comfortable way. The Calm Driving Way.
Learning to drive with anxiety and fear is possibly your greatest motivation to really understand this driving game. Come share my lifetime of study of car crashes. Come learn what I have discovered on my life long jounery searching for “WHAT IS A GOOD DRIVER?”